During fathers' day we thank our fathers for their love and sacrifices that they did for our family. Our father is one of the best person, dad or even a man for us. They are always there for us. They can protect the whole family in danger. He will do anything to sustain the needs of his family. Our fathers are really amazing. I really love my father. But I think this fathers' day will be sad for all of us in the family. This is the first fathers' day that we will spend without him. I will never forget him. All of the times that we are together are considered as a treasure for me.
The worst and the saddest thing that happened to our family is when my father died. It is just like the end of everything. Just like an ending of a chapter on a book, where there is a new beginning and new life after such a situation. When he's still alive for me, he is the best father in the world. I still remember all the things that he did for us. Let me tell you the story of his life. He didn't finish his studies. He is just a waiter in Puerto Asul and there he met my mom. When my mom got pregnant, they both resigned in there jobs. He came from a poor family so he is good at household chores. When we are still young we are trained by our dad to do this kind of things. We just get our income from our bakery. My dad knows how to bake breads. Because we are the one who only have a bakery in our place, our business is really at its highest. He is very hardworking. Mom and Dad will sleep late at night just to finish making breads that are going to be sell early in the morning. He is doing this just to support our studies. He died because of cancer. He became bed rest for almost a couple of months. He died on September 19, 2012. His dream is to see all of us finish our studies and have a better life and future. The saddest thing here is that he died without reaching his dream. We promise our selves that we will finish our studies and make our family proud. I will also never forget his loyalty to my mom. He never hurt my mom physically and emotionally. My dad loves my mom very much. He is quiet and doesn't share most of the stories of his life to me. We are not that close but we have some time for bonding. The thing that I will never forget is we both go to a particular barber shop and there we both have our hair cut. That might sound boring, but I think the boring stuff is the stuff I remember the most.
Maybe this year's Fathers' day will not be as happy as before. I really miss my dad very much. I learned a lesson in life that you should always let the people around you fill your love and appreciation in them because no one knows how long you will be together with that person. So wherever my dad is now I just want to say that I really love him and I miss him very much.
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